Turns out your first mistake was focusing on the outcome – that 20 lb weight loss. By setting impossible-to-maintain habits with a deadline for desired outcome, you set yourself up for failure. One misstep – giving in to that cookie craving, for example – can derail your train to weight-loss. You figure you gave in on the cookie, so you might as well call it a day and have a pizza for dinner. And a glass of wine sure would taste a whole lot better with that pizza than water. And then, what point is there in exercising because you can’t possibly walk far enough to make up for the cookie/pizza/wine fest. Before the first week is up, you figure what’s the point – you’re never going to make the March deadline anyway.
Small Wins
In order to build good habits, you need to set realistic goals. Start small, with something it’s impossible to ignore because it’s so easy. For example: a five-minute walk to the corner and back every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Or a salad for dinner every Monday night.
Eventually, these activities will be so ingrained in your routine, they will feel like second-nature – and more importantly, you can score yourself a “win!” Then, you can up the ante – maybe by extending that five-minute walk to Tuesdayand Saturday as well – or maybe add another five minutes to your Monday, Wednesday, Friday routine.
Good habits take a long time to build, and some habits take longer than others. By setting smaller, more realistic goals, it becomes easier to psyche yourself up for the long haul of better living through a better you.
Don’t wait for the New Year – the time to get started is right now!